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Dreams – How do our loved ones communicate?

After someone has crossed over to the other side, they are limited with how much help they can provide. Although they have access to your life charts and what you have planned, you have made a point of ensuring that people know what type of help you would be willing to have while you are here.

Dreams are a great source of connection. When we are sleeping, our minds are more open to the messages that we receive. During our waking life, we are busy, more focused on the task at hand and not always aware of the signs they are trying to share!

If your wanting to connect with a loved one through a dream, before you goto bed, there are things you need to do. While laying down, ask your loved one to come to you in a dream. To share insight with you and ask that they let you remember when you wake up! (That part is important! Not everyone remembers their dreams!)

I dream A LOT. Sometimes I wish I could turn it off, and other times I am thankful to have it. Some are insightful, and some are just plain crazy! I wanted to share two dreams that are specific to people who have crossed over.

My mom passed away unexpectedly. March 8, 2010. This was the day after her own fathers funeral. Yes you read that right. The day after we had his funeral. We decided to cremate my mom’s body (yes this is what she wanted) and I remember a conversation with my mom 3 weeks prior to this. It was over the phone and I thought were having a “what if” type of conversation. One of those that you don’t really take seriously. Talking about when she did pass away, that she wanted to be cremated, and that she told me to just throw her ashes in the garbage. I laughed, I remember telling her that was crazy and I obviously wouldn’t do that. It’s here I draw a blank. I remember her giving me a suggestion on where to spread it, but as I did not take the conversation seriously, it escapes me. (I still have her ashes with me.)

It was within two weeks of her passing. I had been helping her husband to get things sorted, and I had a dream that night. She told me in this dream, if I just had waited a few more days to cremate her, she would have come back. I woke up crying. Logically, of course I know this would have been impossible. Her cremation ended up being just shy of a week after she passed. Interpretation? I believe this to be a further indication that they do not want to be considered “dead”. Although our physical body dies, our soul does not.

Fast forward to June 16, 2017. My mom’s husband after a tough battle with cancer in his throat, was at the point where the drs said he would pass “any day now”. He was no longer conscious at this point because of the drs orders and his safety. This night, Gord came to me in a dream. He was standing inside my closet, and walking back and forth in the closet banging into the sides. Back and forth. I remember looking at him and asking him what he was doing. He replied “I don’t know where to go”. (this still makes me tear up, this “dream” is so vivid). My dream self not realizing that this is a visit rather than a dream says “Don’t eat the people!” (Thank you Walking Dead TV Show!)

I headed to the palliative care unit, June 17, 2017 around 9:30am (my 40th birthday!) and even though he wasn’t conscious told him about my dream with him. Explained where he needed to go, and told him, when he seen my mom to tell her that we loved her and missed her a lot. I told Gord how much we loved him, would miss him and read him the eulogy I had wrote about him. I wanted him to know the nice things that would be said about him. I left at 11:30. A phone call came in at 12:30pm telling me that I needed to head back to the palliative care as it looked like it could be any minute. Gord passed away 1:05pm. I didn’t make it back in time.

Your loved ones will use dreams to pass messages, to provide insight and to connect with you so you can still feel them close by. They want us to always feel loved and supported.

Have you had any dreams/messages from your loved ones? Comment below!


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Are they dead? Or have they just “moved on”?

I want to tell you about a dream I had. I wonder if others here have had the same, and this would lead to a fun event to try and connect with the other side. (it’s a long post, but I think worth the read!)

My mom passed away March 8, 2010. I was 33 years old, and as I am 43 years old now, I realize how thankful I am that I got to spend 33 years with her. Her husband passed away June 17th, 2017. The day I turned 40.

I have been thinking of them both a lot lately. Often asking them for guidance as I know our loved ones can leave messages for us especially through dreams or in signs. (Since asking, there have been dimes everywhere, which to me is an indication they are listening!).

My dream on the other hand was hard for me. Here is what happened.

DREAM: I received a phone call. It was from my mom. In my dream, I thought she was dead. I knew it. But the dream me was so thankful to hear from her, all reason seemed to go out of the window. How could this be? How could I be talking to her on the phone. She told me that her and Gord (Her husband) didn’t actually die, they just went somewhere else (moved in the dream) and didn’t want people to know they were alive anymore. That they were together. Of course dream me is hurt, like how could they lead us to believe this entire time that they were dead and have just been here all along.

She then tells me that she has to have surgery and for me to call her the next day at 6:45. I agree and say goodbye, and then wonder if I should be telling my sister, and Gord’s family that he isn’t dead, and that they just moved away.

It’s then that I woke up. It’s hard. Hearing her voice again was so nice, but these visits are hard because you are so thankful that they aren’t dead, only to wake up again realizing that they are not actually physically here.

What is the message from the dream? A reminder that our loved ones are not “dead” but just “moved on”. Their body may no longer be here, but their soul lives on and that’s the message they continue to hammer home.

I have had a few of these dreams now, where my mom has told me if I just waited a few more days to cremate her, she was coming back.. (She had already had “moved on” now for almost a week, so obviously that wouldn’t have happened) To another dream that I had run into my mom at a restaurant with her new family…

As I sit here and type this out, and obviously feeling emotional (and yes crying haha) I thought, what if the number 645 had further meaning.. and decided to google “angel number 645”.

Heavenly presence is manifested by number meaning 645. This represents the angels, fairies, guardian angels and heavenly beings. The occurrence of 645 is a sign that they are watching you. They want you to take the right direction in life.

What are your thoughts? Have you had any dreams of your loved ones who have “moved on”?

I am going to be doing a have event with the people in my facebook group. Working on connecting to our loved ones. Learning how to open up your own gifts for this area. If your interested in opening your own psychic abilities, join our private group on facebook


Ever had a dream that shook you to the core?

Do you ever wake up from a dream and think “what the heck?”

I dream almost every night. The things that go through my mind while sleeping, I am sure you would not believe half of the stuff that comes through!

In my dream last night, I was driving my van down a road, and literally a rock slide started in front of me. As I continued to try and out maneuver this rock slide, I quickly turned down a street only to see that start to be blocked off as well. I quickly floored it and turned around because I didn’t want to be trapped down that street. As I got further away to a safe area it showed me standing beside my Dad. As we talked, we realized that all over the world, parts of land had sunken into the ground. Collapsed a bit further into the earth. Like a sink hole, but not as deep! My dad commented that the water supply would be next. I was shocked, because where would the water all go? He referred to the water that was stored for drinking and that there was a hole now in the bottom. We watched the news, and sure enough as it continued with the media coverage they reported on all of the damage, and how low the water was getting. I looked at my Dad and said “its the end of the world as we know it… isn’t it”. Then I woke up.

Is this dream the prediction of the end of the world? No, I do not think so.  Sometimes our dreams are our guides showing us things that are happening in our waking life. Things that we need to pay more attention too in order to move forward. What does my dream say to me?  I love using dreammoods.com to help interpret my dreams. When something is prominent I know there is further meaning (Not like my plants vs zombie dream the one night!)

Here is what my dream means
Rock Slide
To see a rock slide in your dream suggests that you are experiencing a “rocky” period in your waking life. You are overwhelmed with pressure. You feel like the weight of life’s daily demands is crumbling down on you.

Driving
To dream that you are driving a vehicle signifies your life’s journey and your path in life. The dream is telling of how you are moving and navigating through life.

There is change that is happening in my life, I provide daycare before and after school, and one of the parents that has two children is possibly going to homeschool next year, another one of my daycare kids is done with daycare as she starts middle school next year and then my last two kids are my nephews. My sister lost her current contract (it ended) and will be looking closer to home for new work, which means that she could possibly pick up her own kids after school and also will not need care…

So the dilemma for me, is not knowing what comes next. I can’t read myself and I wonder if this is a sign that I move on to something else and let the daycare part of my life naturally phase out, or if I start with new kids.

What are your thoughts?