Answer your questions with a pendulum!

Do you have a quick yes/no question that your just dying to have answered and not sure what you should do? A pendulum is an amazing tool that can help you decipher quick direction from your guides if it’s yes, or no.

When using your pendulum, ask your guides to help guide you to the answers that you seek. A yes answer, will have your pendulum swing in a circle, a no answer, will have your pendulum swing in a back and forth motion. If your pendulum is unsure, or it’s more complex than a simple yes/no answer, your pendulum will swing in a diagonal motion.

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I ain’t afraid of no ghost…

I would have to say that this is completely FALSE! Despite the fact I know there are ghosts out there and have had my own experiences, there are things like what my husband has experienced that would have me running from the house screaming!

My husband was staying at a friends house, he friends girlfriend lost her son due to a work place accident about 6 months prior. Since his friends house is a few hours drive from ours, he was going to crash there for the weekend. The room they offered him to sleep in, was her late sons bedroom. You see where I am going here right?

My husband is not as open to spiritual experiences as I am, despite knowing what I do to help people. He laid down to go to sleep and was awoken, by someone grabbing his ankles and dragging him off the bed. He lands on the floor, blankets and all and immediately tries to jump up, thinking his friend is playing a prank on him. Only he is the only one in the room!

From my own experience, we lived in townhouse. My garage had a room above it that was connected to the house through a bathroom. (odd right?). It was late at night, our daughter was not even 2, was sound asleep in her room, my husband sound asleep in ours. I am working on readings for clients when I hear foot steps walking from the bedrooms towards where I am working. I move my chair over and peek down the hall. No one is there. I think it’s my husband, I walk down the hall, he is fast asleep. Check in on my daughter, and she too is sound asleep….

I have seen enough and heard enough to know that ghost are real. I’d love to hear your experience. Do you think ghosts are real, or an easy explanation?

Guided Meditation

I have been to many events and lectures. Whether it was James Van Praagh, John Holland, Doreen Virtue or Sylvia Browne. Each event, they walk you through a bit of a guided meditation. Often being able to raise the vibration of the room and give you a more upbeat and relaxed feeling.

Some of the meditations have involved meeting my guide for the first time, located at a waterfall. I had known what he looked like and communicated with him before, but this actually felt like we were standing face to face and being able to hug him and thank him for the help on this journey was an amazing feeling.

The one that will really stand out to me for the rest of my life, is an Event that James Van Praagh had put on. It was in Richmond and was 6 months after my mom had crossed over.

He had us sit there with our eyes closed, palms facing up. This is what he told us to visualize:

You see yourself walking through the forest on a path. The path can be rocks, cobblestone, or even dirt. Seeing the path marked with flowers or rocks, and you walk through these large trees. Looking up you can see that they feel the sky as if your in a canopy of them. Lush and green. You continuing walking and finding this so peaceful. As you get further in, you notice its getting thinner further ahead, more light coming through and it opens up into this beautiful little area with a large fountain. There are seats around it and as you walk closer you notice that they are made out of marble. The seats are white with this intricate design going through. You reach down and you touch the seat. It’s cool to the touch and feels good against your skin. You turn around and sit down on this bench and look up. In front of you, is now your loved one who has crossed over..

Imagine my surprise, when there in front of me, stood my mom. She had on a white shirt, with some sort of picture on the front (likely a cat or similar). Black pants, and her black purse was hung over her right shoulder. She looked at me with tears in her eyes, I could feel how much she missed me. I cried (not just in the meditation, but real tears! Just like I am right now as I write this experience!) I stand up, and we move together and I hug her. I can feel her again and it’s so nice.

I can hear other people at this event crying too. It doesn’t last long before he brings everyone back to the room with getting us to open our eyes. I look to my right, the woman is crying, wiping her tears. I look to the left, my sister as well is crying.

I know how to tune into my psychic abilities, but I still have that side like we all do, questioning “is this real”? Later that night, without saying to my sister what I had seen, I asked her if she had seen mom. She said yes. I asked her “what was mom wearing when you seen her?” My sister described the EXACT same outfit that I had seen. Down to every little detail.

Guided meditations can be for more than just connecting you with your loved one. Here are more ways it can benefit you 🙂

  • Gaining a new perspective on stressful situations.
  • Building skills to manage your stress.
  • Increasing self-awareness.
  • Focusing on the present.
  • Reducing negative emotions.
  • Increasing imagination and creativity.
  • Increasing patience and tolerance.

Open up your psychic abilities

I truly believe that we are all psychic. We all have the ability to see into the future. Whether its a few minutes ahead to better prepare ourselves, or if our guides provide insight that allow us to choose the right direction.

Although we are all born with the ability, over time we tend to shut it off, or start to think of the signs we see or are just coincidence. Even when it lines up and you’re thinking “wow I knew this would happen” we still second guess what comes in!

What if I told you, starting to open up your abilities again is just a matter of tuning back in? I know, easier said than done right? Here is a quick visualization to signal to your guides that your open and ready. They will find ways to put opportunities in your path that will continue to increase the abilities that you have.

Take into consideration that no two psychics are alike. Our life experiences are always going to be different, the messages we receive from our guides will be tailored to those experiences so we can interpret the images better not only for ourselves but potential clients.

Just as there is more than one psychic ability, you will find that one area will be stronger and more developed than someone else. Does not mean that you can’t work on other psychic abilities, just means one will be easier for you than the others.

VISUALIZING TECHNIQUE

I want you to find a quiet place. Sitting with your legs straight and not crossed, hands in your lap with your palms facing up. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.

I want you to picture an eye ball on your forehead. Just above your brow lines and in the centre. You will visualize your third eye opening, and then blinking a few times. This will signal to your guides that you’re ready and willing to listen.

If you are feeling over whelmed (which can happen if your empathic ability is really heightened) visualize your third eye closing and remaining closed. This might give you a bit of time to re-centre yourself!

Protect against negative energy

Protect yourself from negative energy!

When you start to open up your own Psychic gifts, a lot of the times you will notice your Empathic abilities heightened first. This means that you feel EVERYTHING. Could even include any negative energy that other people are carrying around, or spirits that sense that your more “awake”. It’s always best to protect yourself when possible. Whether it’s your day to day life, or if you’re trying to provide readings for other people. Here are a few quick ways to protect yourself!

When providing readings, it’s always best to “ground” yourself. I am sure that you have heard this many times before, but here is a quick technique to get you started.

Sitting with your hands face up in your lap, and your eyes closed, visualize yourself standing tall. You are a giant oak tree. Your feet are going to grow roots and dig deep into Mother Earth. The rest of you, your long body and head and arms continue to reach up and grow taller and taller until you are the tallest tree. You can see everything around you, feeling the breeze. Visualize the beautiful sun shining it’s rays down on you and into your crown chakra. Feel the warmth and allow this energy to go through you, down into the roots you have created.

Another way would be to utilize stones as a way to offer protection. Carrying it in your pocket, your bra, in your purse, under your pillow etc. I think you get the picture!

Here are 5 stones that can help right away!

  • Black Tourmaline. This stone is known for its ability to positively transform and “cleanse” negative energy. …
  • Black Onyx. This smooth, dark crystal is known to protect its owner from harmful spirits, psychic attacks, and black magic. …
  • Jet. …
  • Smokey Quartz. …
  • Hematite.

If you have sage already you can use this technique as well.

Burn a candle, set an intention, and then light the sage using the candle. “Blow it out so the embers are glowing. With both hands, bring the smoke into your heart, over your head and down the front and back body to cleanse yourself

What I see when doing a TTC or Pregnancy Reading

A lot of my clients come to me for a fertility reading, or a pregnancy reading and I am happy to do them! But what does that process look like and why is everyone’s readings so different?

When I get started on a trying to conceive or a pregnancy reading, right after I view the pregnancy history they start to focus on the child to come. I instantly feel connected to a month, knowing that it would be either birth month, conceive month or the month you find out in. Followed by their gender. This is when things start to change from one client to the next.

My guides will at times focus on your pregnancy, how it will affect you, will you be tired, have cravings. They might focus on the birth, will your baby be early or late? How much will they weigh and do they have a lot of hair when they are born or very little?

They might just jump right into your child’s personality. Giving me a snap shot of perhaps things they like as a kid, what hobbies they might enjoy. The way that they might like to dress or things they dislike. Perhaps more focus is given on their teen years. What hobbies and interests they lean towards, the type of friends they hang around and what you might notice about being their parent and providing support. Your guides will usually give an indication of career aspects, where their interests lie and direction(field) I am seeing them going as well as their age when they get married and how many kids.

Each reading is unique, just like you and your family. Your guides focus on aspects they feel are important, to allow you to connect to your reading and your child even before they will be here!

The information that comes through, is like telling you about a child that I have already met, and explaining what they are like. I see pictures of them in my mind. How they hold themselves, the way they smile, how they might wear their hair or even the type of clothes that they will choose.

When it comes to predictions with multiple children, your guides show me a family portrait. Like you all decided to head over to the photographer and pose together for a picture. I can see the sizes of the children, determining approx how far apart they are. How they interact with their siblings and the family dynamic. How you all interact together as a family, how you parent, and how your children react.

In readings, I allow whatever your guides wish to show you. I type it all out, let it flow through me and give you whatever images they show. The feelings I get, the emotions that come out of it. If someone has a question about the reading, or interested in other aspects of their children all they have to do is ask. Even though it wasn’t in the reading at the time, doesn’t mean that your guides won’t fill you in should you ask.

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Dreams – How do our loved ones communicate?

After someone has crossed over to the other side, they are limited with how much help they can provide. Although they have access to your life charts and what you have planned, you have made a point of ensuring that people know what type of help you would be willing to have while you are here.

Dreams are a great source of connection. When we are sleeping, our minds are more open to the messages that we receive. During our waking life, we are busy, more focused on the task at hand and not always aware of the signs they are trying to share!

If your wanting to connect with a loved one through a dream, before you goto bed, there are things you need to do. While laying down, ask your loved one to come to you in a dream. To share insight with you and ask that they let you remember when you wake up! (That part is important! Not everyone remembers their dreams!)

I dream A LOT. Sometimes I wish I could turn it off, and other times I am thankful to have it. Some are insightful, and some are just plain crazy! I wanted to share two dreams that are specific to people who have crossed over.

My mom passed away unexpectedly. March 8, 2010. This was the day after her own fathers funeral. Yes you read that right. The day after we had his funeral. We decided to cremate my mom’s body (yes this is what she wanted) and I remember a conversation with my mom 3 weeks prior to this. It was over the phone and I thought were having a “what if” type of conversation. One of those that you don’t really take seriously. Talking about when she did pass away, that she wanted to be cremated, and that she told me to just throw her ashes in the garbage. I laughed, I remember telling her that was crazy and I obviously wouldn’t do that. It’s here I draw a blank. I remember her giving me a suggestion on where to spread it, but as I did not take the conversation seriously, it escapes me. (I still have her ashes with me.)

It was within two weeks of her passing. I had been helping her husband to get things sorted, and I had a dream that night. She told me in this dream, if I just had waited a few more days to cremate her, she would have come back. I woke up crying. Logically, of course I know this would have been impossible. Her cremation ended up being just shy of a week after she passed. Interpretation? I believe this to be a further indication that they do not want to be considered “dead”. Although our physical body dies, our soul does not.

Fast forward to June 16, 2017. My mom’s husband after a tough battle with cancer in his throat, was at the point where the drs said he would pass “any day now”. He was no longer conscious at this point because of the drs orders and his safety. This night, Gord came to me in a dream. He was standing inside my closet, and walking back and forth in the closet banging into the sides. Back and forth. I remember looking at him and asking him what he was doing. He replied “I don’t know where to go”. (this still makes me tear up, this “dream” is so vivid). My dream self not realizing that this is a visit rather than a dream says “Don’t eat the people!” (Thank you Walking Dead TV Show!)

I headed to the palliative care unit, June 17, 2017 around 9:30am (my 40th birthday!) and even though he wasn’t conscious told him about my dream with him. Explained where he needed to go, and told him, when he seen my mom to tell her that we loved her and missed her a lot. I told Gord how much we loved him, would miss him and read him the eulogy I had wrote about him. I wanted him to know the nice things that would be said about him. I left at 11:30. A phone call came in at 12:30pm telling me that I needed to head back to the palliative care as it looked like it could be any minute. Gord passed away 1:05pm. I didn’t make it back in time.

Your loved ones will use dreams to pass messages, to provide insight and to connect with you so you can still feel them close by. They want us to always feel loved and supported.

Have you had any dreams/messages from your loved ones? Comment below!

2 angels

Are they dead? Or have they just “moved on”?

I want to tell you about a dream I had. I wonder if others here have had the same, and this would lead to a fun event to try and connect with the other side. (it’s a long post, but I think worth the read!)

My mom passed away March 8, 2010. I was 33 years old, and as I am 43 years old now, I realize how thankful I am that I got to spend 33 years with her. Her husband passed away June 17th, 2017. The day I turned 40.

I have been thinking of them both a lot lately. Often asking them for guidance as I know our loved ones can leave messages for us especially through dreams or in signs. (Since asking, there have been dimes everywhere, which to me is an indication they are listening!).

My dream on the other hand was hard for me. Here is what happened.

DREAM: I received a phone call. It was from my mom. In my dream, I thought she was dead. I knew it. But the dream me was so thankful to hear from her, all reason seemed to go out of the window. How could this be? How could I be talking to her on the phone. She told me that her and Gord (Her husband) didn’t actually die, they just went somewhere else (moved in the dream) and didn’t want people to know they were alive anymore. That they were together. Of course dream me is hurt, like how could they lead us to believe this entire time that they were dead and have just been here all along.

She then tells me that she has to have surgery and for me to call her the next day at 6:45. I agree and say goodbye, and then wonder if I should be telling my sister, and Gord’s family that he isn’t dead, and that they just moved away.

It’s then that I woke up. It’s hard. Hearing her voice again was so nice, but these visits are hard because you are so thankful that they aren’t dead, only to wake up again realizing that they are not actually physically here.

What is the message from the dream? A reminder that our loved ones are not “dead” but just “moved on”. Their body may no longer be here, but their soul lives on and that’s the message they continue to hammer home.

I have had a few of these dreams now, where my mom has told me if I just waited a few more days to cremate her, she was coming back.. (She had already had “moved on” now for almost a week, so obviously that wouldn’t have happened) To another dream that I had run into my mom at a restaurant with her new family…

As I sit here and type this out, and obviously feeling emotional (and yes crying haha) I thought, what if the number 645 had further meaning.. and decided to google “angel number 645”.

Heavenly presence is manifested by number meaning 645. This represents the angels, fairies, guardian angels and heavenly beings. The occurrence of 645 is a sign that they are watching you. They want you to take the right direction in life.

What are your thoughts? Have you had any dreams of your loved ones who have “moved on”?

I am going to be doing a have event with the people in my facebook group. Working on connecting to our loved ones. Learning how to open up your own gifts for this area. If your interested in opening your own psychic abilities, join our private group on facebook

What happens when we cross over?

I have a lot of clients ask me what happens when we cross over, and if their loved ones know they have died. I hope I can put your mind at ease with what I have been shown. Providing more peace with your loved one’s passing and letting you know that they are safe on the other side.

When someone passes away, regardless of what has caused their passing, whether they were aware of it to happen or not, the first few moments is a bit disorienting. Realizing the people who stand before you are not in a dream because you clue in they had already crossed over. It’s usually your guide who is the first one you see, followed by the people who you cared about in this life time who have gone before you. There is a moment of feeling disappointed, regret of what you didn’t accomplish and the sadness of the people you have left behind. This usually lasts a few minutes, until the realization of why you choose that life to begin with, the life lessons you had chosen and succeed at, and the exit points you had chosen for yourself. Then settles in acceptance and happiness. Your home.

Our loved ones are not sad that they have gone. They worry about us, the ones who are living and struggling with their absence. The ones who are having difficulty with their passing and prevented from being our happier selves. They do not want to be thought of as “dead”. This is a term we use, they prefer “crossed over” or “home”. Dead means gone forever, and that is not the case after you cross over.

I have talked with many other psychics who also do readings on loved ones who have crossed over, and they too say they have difficulty with connecting with someone after they have been gone for 2 weeks. It’s from 2 weeks to the 6 month mark that seems to be more difficult and a bit more cloudy on the information that comes through.

The first two weeks, your loved one is able to “hang around” to ensure that you are coping. To say their goodbyes and do what they can to try and comfort you. Signs and dreams will be strongest during this time. They want you to know they have made it! A song might play on the radio you connect to them, perhaps finding something on the ground you know they had something to do with! After this time frame, they head to the “review” room with their Guide. The image is like a booth that they sit in, it has curtains that close you in and you sit and watch your life here on earth. The moments that really mattered, including the moments you had wished to forget, and understand more fully the impact you had on this life. Did you accomplish your lessons? Was there something more you could have learned. This process is done with only yourself and your main guide. No one else. Your allowed to cry, to ask questions. Formulate whether you would like to return in a new life for any life lessons you might have missed or even to take a break. This review provides you a bit of time to “detox”. Being more connected with your spiritual side and the person you are when you are “home”.

Do you have questions? Comment below

Your Spirit Guides are sending you hints!

Did you know your guides do their best to communicate with you? Although they can’t actually just give you the answer to what you seek, they do try and guide you in ways that are allowed.

Often this means little hints. Signs and symbols are left around for you to find. Things that might not mean anything to anyone else, but when you see it, it’s something you will understand immediately!

For example, let’s say your problem is related to money. You want to purchase something but your not entirely sure that the timing is right and it’s stressing you out. You ask your guides for a sign to let you know which direction you should go.

Let’s say the next day you’re out and about and you see a penny on the ground. You might interpret this to mean “penny saved” and an indication that you should SAVE your money and not make the purchase. (if you were to have seen a penny on the ground and it meant “penny from heaven” to you, your guides would not utilize this as a sign for you. It’s customized to you!)

Your guides will do what they can to ensure you get the message and will utilize your life experiences to ensure you understand exactly what you need to do! Too many people see these signs and second guess them, even though they asked for help and that they wanted to see signs!

Have you noticed the signs that your guides leave for you?