What I see when doing a TTC or Pregnancy Reading

A lot of my clients come to me for a fertility reading, or a pregnancy reading and I am happy to do them! But what does that process look like and why is everyone’s readings so different?

When I get started on a trying to conceive or a pregnancy reading, right after I view the pregnancy history they start to focus on the child to come. I instantly feel connected to a month, knowing that it would be either birth month, conceive month or the month you find out in. Followed by their gender. This is when things start to change from one client to the next.

My guides will at times focus on your pregnancy, how it will affect you, will you be tired, have cravings. They might focus on the birth, will your baby be early or late? How much will they weigh and do they have a lot of hair when they are born or very little?

They might just jump right into your child’s personality. Giving me a snap shot of perhaps things they like as a kid, what hobbies they might enjoy. The way that they might like to dress or things they dislike. Perhaps more focus is given on their teen years. What hobbies and interests they lean towards, the type of friends they hang around and what you might notice about being their parent and providing support. Your guides will usually give an indication of career aspects, where their interests lie and direction(field) I am seeing them going as well as their age when they get married and how many kids.

Each reading is unique, just like you and your family. Your guides focus on aspects they feel are important, to allow you to connect to your reading and your child even before they will be here!

The information that comes through, is like telling you about a child that I have already met, and explaining what they are like. I see pictures of them in my mind. How they hold themselves, the way they smile, how they might wear their hair or even the type of clothes that they will choose.

When it comes to predictions with multiple children, your guides show me a family portrait. Like you all decided to head over to the photographer and pose together for a picture. I can see the sizes of the children, determining approx how far apart they are. How they interact with their siblings and the family dynamic. How you all interact together as a family, how you parent, and how your children react.

In readings, I allow whatever your guides wish to show you. I type it all out, let it flow through me and give you whatever images they show. The feelings I get, the emotions that come out of it. If someone has a question about the reading, or interested in other aspects of their children all they have to do is ask. Even though it wasn’t in the reading at the time, doesn’t mean that your guides won’t fill you in should you ask.

Have questions? Comment below!

Dreams – How do our loved ones communicate?

After someone has crossed over to the other side, they are limited with how much help they can provide. Although they have access to your life charts and what you have planned, you have made a point of ensuring that people know what type of help you would be willing to have while you are here.

Dreams are a great source of connection. When we are sleeping, our minds are more open to the messages that we receive. During our waking life, we are busy, more focused on the task at hand and not always aware of the signs they are trying to share!

If your wanting to connect with a loved one through a dream, before you goto bed, there are things you need to do. While laying down, ask your loved one to come to you in a dream. To share insight with you and ask that they let you remember when you wake up! (That part is important! Not everyone remembers their dreams!)

I dream A LOT. Sometimes I wish I could turn it off, and other times I am thankful to have it. Some are insightful, and some are just plain crazy! I wanted to share two dreams that are specific to people who have crossed over.

My mom passed away unexpectedly. March 8, 2010. This was the day after her own fathers funeral. Yes you read that right. The day after we had his funeral. We decided to cremate my mom’s body (yes this is what she wanted) and I remember a conversation with my mom 3 weeks prior to this. It was over the phone and I thought were having a “what if” type of conversation. One of those that you don’t really take seriously. Talking about when she did pass away, that she wanted to be cremated, and that she told me to just throw her ashes in the garbage. I laughed, I remember telling her that was crazy and I obviously wouldn’t do that. It’s here I draw a blank. I remember her giving me a suggestion on where to spread it, but as I did not take the conversation seriously, it escapes me. (I still have her ashes with me.)

It was within two weeks of her passing. I had been helping her husband to get things sorted, and I had a dream that night. She told me in this dream, if I just had waited a few more days to cremate her, she would have come back. I woke up crying. Logically, of course I know this would have been impossible. Her cremation ended up being just shy of a week after she passed. Interpretation? I believe this to be a further indication that they do not want to be considered “dead”. Although our physical body dies, our soul does not.

Fast forward to June 16, 2017. My mom’s husband after a tough battle with cancer in his throat, was at the point where the drs said he would pass “any day now”. He was no longer conscious at this point because of the drs orders and his safety. This night, Gord came to me in a dream. He was standing inside my closet, and walking back and forth in the closet banging into the sides. Back and forth. I remember looking at him and asking him what he was doing. He replied “I don’t know where to go”. (this still makes me tear up, this “dream” is so vivid). My dream self not realizing that this is a visit rather than a dream says “Don’t eat the people!” (Thank you Walking Dead TV Show!)

I headed to the palliative care unit, June 17, 2017 around 9:30am (my 40th birthday!) and even though he wasn’t conscious told him about my dream with him. Explained where he needed to go, and told him, when he seen my mom to tell her that we loved her and missed her a lot. I told Gord how much we loved him, would miss him and read him the eulogy I had wrote about him. I wanted him to know the nice things that would be said about him. I left at 11:30. A phone call came in at 12:30pm telling me that I needed to head back to the palliative care as it looked like it could be any minute. Gord passed away 1:05pm. I didn’t make it back in time.

Your loved ones will use dreams to pass messages, to provide insight and to connect with you so you can still feel them close by. They want us to always feel loved and supported.

Have you had any dreams/messages from your loved ones? Comment below!

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Are they dead? Or have they just “moved on”?

I want to tell you about a dream I had. I wonder if others here have had the same, and this would lead to a fun event to try and connect with the other side. (it’s a long post, but I think worth the read!)

My mom passed away March 8, 2010. I was 33 years old, and as I am 43 years old now, I realize how thankful I am that I got to spend 33 years with her. Her husband passed away June 17th, 2017. The day I turned 40.

I have been thinking of them both a lot lately. Often asking them for guidance as I know our loved ones can leave messages for us especially through dreams or in signs. (Since asking, there have been dimes everywhere, which to me is an indication they are listening!).

My dream on the other hand was hard for me. Here is what happened.

DREAM: I received a phone call. It was from my mom. In my dream, I thought she was dead. I knew it. But the dream me was so thankful to hear from her, all reason seemed to go out of the window. How could this be? How could I be talking to her on the phone. She told me that her and Gord (Her husband) didn’t actually die, they just went somewhere else (moved in the dream) and didn’t want people to know they were alive anymore. That they were together. Of course dream me is hurt, like how could they lead us to believe this entire time that they were dead and have just been here all along.

She then tells me that she has to have surgery and for me to call her the next day at 6:45. I agree and say goodbye, and then wonder if I should be telling my sister, and Gord’s family that he isn’t dead, and that they just moved away.

It’s then that I woke up. It’s hard. Hearing her voice again was so nice, but these visits are hard because you are so thankful that they aren’t dead, only to wake up again realizing that they are not actually physically here.

What is the message from the dream? A reminder that our loved ones are not “dead” but just “moved on”. Their body may no longer be here, but their soul lives on and that’s the message they continue to hammer home.

I have had a few of these dreams now, where my mom has told me if I just waited a few more days to cremate her, she was coming back.. (She had already had “moved on” now for almost a week, so obviously that wouldn’t have happened) To another dream that I had run into my mom at a restaurant with her new family…

As I sit here and type this out, and obviously feeling emotional (and yes crying haha) I thought, what if the number 645 had further meaning.. and decided to google “angel number 645”.

Heavenly presence is manifested by number meaning 645. This represents the angels, fairies, guardian angels and heavenly beings. The occurrence of 645 is a sign that they are watching you. They want you to take the right direction in life.

What are your thoughts? Have you had any dreams of your loved ones who have “moved on”?

I am going to be doing a have event with the people in my facebook group. Working on connecting to our loved ones. Learning how to open up your own gifts for this area. If your interested in opening your own psychic abilities, join our private group on facebook

What happens when we cross over?

I have a lot of clients ask me what happens when we cross over, and if their loved ones know they have died. I hope I can put your mind at ease with what I have been shown. Providing more peace with your loved one’s passing and letting you know that they are safe on the other side.

When someone passes away, regardless of what has caused their passing, whether they were aware of it to happen or not, the first few moments is a bit disorienting. Realizing the people who stand before you are not in a dream because you clue in they had already crossed over. It’s usually your guide who is the first one you see, followed by the people who you cared about in this life time who have gone before you. There is a moment of feeling disappointed, regret of what you didn’t accomplish and the sadness of the people you have left behind. This usually lasts a few minutes, until the realization of why you choose that life to begin with, the life lessons you had chosen and succeed at, and the exit points you had chosen for yourself. Then settles in acceptance and happiness. Your home.

Our loved ones are not sad that they have gone. They worry about us, the ones who are living and struggling with their absence. The ones who are having difficulty with their passing and prevented from being our happier selves. They do not want to be thought of as “dead”. This is a term we use, they prefer “crossed over” or “home”. Dead means gone forever, and that is not the case after you cross over.

I have talked with many other psychics who also do readings on loved ones who have crossed over, and they too say they have difficulty with connecting with someone after they have been gone for 2 weeks. It’s from 2 weeks to the 6 month mark that seems to be more difficult and a bit more cloudy on the information that comes through.

The first two weeks, your loved one is able to “hang around” to ensure that you are coping. To say their goodbyes and do what they can to try and comfort you. Signs and dreams will be strongest during this time. They want you to know they have made it! A song might play on the radio you connect to them, perhaps finding something on the ground you know they had something to do with! After this time frame, they head to the “review” room with their Guide. The image is like a booth that they sit in, it has curtains that close you in and you sit and watch your life here on earth. The moments that really mattered, including the moments you had wished to forget, and understand more fully the impact you had on this life. Did you accomplish your lessons? Was there something more you could have learned. This process is done with only yourself and your main guide. No one else. Your allowed to cry, to ask questions. Formulate whether you would like to return in a new life for any life lessons you might have missed or even to take a break. This review provides you a bit of time to “detox”. Being more connected with your spiritual side and the person you are when you are “home”.

Do you have questions? Comment below

Your Spirit Guides are sending you hints!

Did you know your guides do their best to communicate with you? Although they can’t actually just give you the answer to what you seek, they do try and guide you in ways that are allowed.

Often this means little hints. Signs and symbols are left around for you to find. Things that might not mean anything to anyone else, but when you see it, it’s something you will understand immediately!

For example, let’s say your problem is related to money. You want to purchase something but your not entirely sure that the timing is right and it’s stressing you out. You ask your guides for a sign to let you know which direction you should go.

Let’s say the next day you’re out and about and you see a penny on the ground. You might interpret this to mean “penny saved” and an indication that you should SAVE your money and not make the purchase. (if you were to have seen a penny on the ground and it meant “penny from heaven” to you, your guides would not utilize this as a sign for you. It’s customized to you!)

Your guides will do what they can to ensure you get the message and will utilize your life experiences to ensure you understand exactly what you need to do! Too many people see these signs and second guess them, even though they asked for help and that they wanted to see signs!

Have you noticed the signs that your guides leave for you?

3 tips to protect yourself from negative energy!

A lot of people will find their emphatic abilities develop first more than the other psychic abilities. Now your abilities have been heightened, you will find you pick up on emotions and stress so much more. You could be visiting with a friend and they are smiling and laughing, but you still pick up that there is something wrong. Turns out that they were pretending to be happy and spill the beans when you ask them about it.

You could be out shopping and notice the energy is different and finding yourself feeling grumpy as well without understanding any reason why. The energy around you could be draining you!

So how do you prevent this and protect yourself from other peoples negative energy without bringing it into your self? Create a beautiful shield of light around yourself. Start from the top of your head and cover yourself from head to toe in this light. Almost like a cocoon. Usually a few inches away from your body as a way to reflect any negative energy that might be coming in. You can use white light, or whatever your guides call you to use. It will act like a filter and help eliminate some of the energy that would otherwise drain you or cause you to feel stressed and grumpy!

If you are feeling overwhelmed and stressed another great thing to use, is lavender essential oils! Putting it on your forehead where your “third eye” resides, will help bring you a sense of calm and relaxed.

The next best thing is to leave the room/person if possible. Excuse yourself to the bathroom or another area of the house and just allow yourself a few minutes to be free of the energy and regroup! This really does help in situations where you do not have the ability to shield yourself or to use the lavender!

How old were you when you realized that you were empathic? Was this the first psychic ability that you realized was open?

Can someone put a curse on you?

I have many clients who come to me worried that they have a curse on them. They believe that it is affecting their love lives, perhaps their financial situation and other aspects of their life.

I know how scary this can be for some to think that this could even be a possibility! I am here to tell you that NO ONE has the ability to curse you. Despite their best intentions, the only power a “curse” has on you, is what you give it.

The best way to remove the negativity their intentions might have brought (meaning them telling you that you have been cursed!) is to work within your own energy and do a quick cleanse!

Here is how:

Sit down in a quiet place, your legs not crossed, hands in your lap with your palms facing up. Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Visualize yourself surrounded in a cocoon of light. Allow whatever color your mind settles on to be what color your cocoon is. Take another deep breath. Now internally say “only goodness may enter this light and only goodness may leave it. If your not from the light, please leave”.

You can do this anytime you have also encountered a negative person. Someone who is grumpy and had a bad day and has affected your mood.

Let me know your thoughts below. Has someone tried to tell you that you were cursed?

What if a Tarot Card Reading was easier than you thought?

Reading Tarot cards are something that can be easy or difficult. It really depends on the cards and your confidence in yourself. Although the tarot cards do come with instructions, did you know that there is another way to read them?

As I have mentioned in the past, your Spirit Guides will utilize experiences in your life to help you interpret the message. The same goes if you were to use Tarot cards!

Take your favorite deck and shuffle them. Start going through the pile and take the one that feels like it’s calling to you (there will be that little voice in your head that says “stop” or a slight “nudge” to a card in your hand. For me, It feels like a “lucky” card and I want to pick it!)

Without looking at this card, place it against your chest, and your hand covering it. Feel the card. What emotions are you getting? What visuals are you getting? Any images? People, thoughts, feelings, places, symbols, items..etc.. Write it down!

Take a look at your card. Does it have similar imagery to what you were shown? Similar colors to what you saw or felt? Take a look at your writing. Does what you have written down reflect the images on the card? Interpret it further. What do some of the feelings, colors, images that you were shown mean for you? (you can use a dream dictionary too as a way to further interpret these signs!)


A lot of times, your interpretation and what the meaning of the card (according to the instructions) will be fairly close! After you have interpreted your card, go ahead and check the meaning behind it. See how close things were. The more you practice this, the more confident you will when it comes to reading tarot for yourself or friends.

Let me know if you tried this 🙂

How my Spirit Guide kept me on track…

I love providing readings to my clients. Giving them insight into their life and how they can not only make things better but to also better understand what is happening and why. Let me tell you what happened, and how I met my second Spirit Guide.

I had been providing readings for FREE. Yes.. FREE. Completely full indepth – the whole shebang! I wanted to help as many people as I could possibly help. I never anticipated the amount of emails that would come in every day. Clients looking for that little glimmer of home. I knew I could provide that. I took pride in being able to do that and put so much time and effort into it. Add in that I had a full time job and a young child when I got started. It got to the point where I couldn’t keep up. I was falling behind and feeling miserable about it. I do not like to disappoint anyone. I started receiving emails from people, MAD that I hadn’t sent their free reading. These emails were not kind.

I took the night off from replying to emails and I remember clear as day sitting on the corner of my near, near tears. Thinking that I needed to stop doing readings. That I couldn’t keep everyone happy and perhaps this was not for me. It was then, for the very first time I met my secondary Guide Serlina. Her hair black and curly, just past her shoulders, slender build and wearing a black lace dress. She reminded me of a gypsy but was so kind. She said “You can’t give up. Your needed”. These words although not spoken out loud have stuck with me over the years. I was given this gift to share with others. To help in whatever way I can. Although I have started to charge for my readings I still do provide free reading contests frequently on my page where you can enter to win.

Although Serlina is my Spirit Guide for only matters relating to my Spiritual Side and the journey that I am taking with it, she came at the right moment to help me when I needed it. Your guides will be there for you too.

I’d love to hear your thoughts/comments below.