Crossing over – what happens first

When someone passes away it’s always devastating to us who are left behind. Did you know what happens to our loved ones when they make the journey home?

There have been many times when a loved one will try and communicate with you before you go. Gord, my step dad came to me in a dream the night before he passed. In this “dream” he was stuck inside a closet that had no door. He was walking around inside, bumping into the walls and he said to me ” I don’t know which way to go?”. He was clearly lost, frustrated and not sure what he was doing. Now I have to admit that my dream self didn’t realize this was a visit and not a dream, and of course with watching “The Walking Dead” tv show, my dream self said “Don’t eat the people!!”. I guess in the dream, this apparently made perfect sense. After walking up, I realized it for what it was and had a sense of foreboding the entire day. I drove to the hospital that day and visited with him. (He had been sedated for almost 2 weeks prior because the cancer had caused him to be lucid and anytime he was “awake” he would try and pull out his ports). I talked with him, told him about the dream I had of him and imparted better advice. Telling him we would miss him, and that when he crossed over, he would see my mom and for him to tell her that we miss her too. Gord passed away around 1pm that day. Not even 2 hours after I had left.

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So what happens when they have given their last breath? Well, our loved ones do not need to leave right away. Despite no longer having a physical body, they prefer to stay here for 10-14 days. Wanting to ensure that we are the ones okay. They know where they are and happy to go home, but see us being sad for the next part of their journey. They want to ensure that we are processing their passing and accepting of it. That we are accepting of their passing and able to grieve properly. They are also able to say their goodbyes. To leave signs that they are okay.

Most psychics will find it difficult to connect to someone who has crossed over after the 14 day mark. Once they have been gone for longer than 6 months, it feels like you can connect to them again. Why is this? Although there is no time on the other side, there is a process that they go through once they cross over.

After they have said their goodbyes, they go into a holding room on the other side. Think of it as a theatre room. It seats the individual and their Spirit Guide will remain behind them. Providing them love and support as they go through their life review. Sometimes our hard/difficult lessons take a toll on our soul after we cross. Being hard on ourselves on the things we did to ourselves and the people we cared about. This review allows us the bigger picture. The pieces of the puzzle that we were not privileged too on earth. The why’s of what happened to us and why we needed to go through that. This often allows us to not only forgive ourselves, but others as well.

After this life review, our lessons retained we are able to continue with reconnecting to others who have passed before us. Like a little reunion and reconnection!


Interested in Tarot Cards?

If you have an interest in developing your own Psychic gifts, learning the Tarot cards is the easiest way to get started. I have many tarot decks and use them as an add on for readings. My two favorite decks are as follows!

John Holland – The Psychic Tarot Oracle Deck

John Holland - The Psychic Tarot Oracle Deck
John Holland – The Psychic Tarot Oracle Deck

This tarot deck is one I purchased while at a lecture from John Holland. If you ever get a chance to see a lecture in person by him, he is one that you will enjoy and be impressed!

This tarot deck is perfect for what will be coming next, or even using in a past/present/future life spread. Allowing you guidance into what might be holding you back, what could be happening right now that you need more focus on, so that what is to happen in the future will allow you to move forward. These cards are easy to follow and they do have a guidebook that you can read to follow up for the meaning of the cards.

 

My second favorite Tarot deck is Denise Linn – Soul Coaching Oracle Cards

Denise Linn Soul Coaching Oracle cards
Denise Linn Soul Coaching Oracle card

This deck is a very empowering deck that provides you insight into what is happening right now and into the close future. Providing you a glimpse and insight into what you need to know. They are very uplifting and a positive message that many people can resonate too. This deck has a positive influence and a good energy about them.

They offer the card meaning, what your soul wants you to know by having this card, and the positive affirmation that goes with it to “activate” this into your life.

Another way to read a tarot card that you might find to be fun. Take a card without looking at the picture and hold it against your heart. Feel the card’s energy and allow whatever visuals to come into your mind. Pictures, colors, feelings. Write it down. When you feel you have everything, look at the card. Does it have similar characteristics to what you had seen/felt? Not only then should you look up the interpretation of the card, but also what you had written down. These will also play a factor in the message you have received.

I usually purchase my tarot cards from Hay House – https://www.hayhouse.com/

Which Tarot Decks do you own?


Remember, a tarot deck is meant to offer you guidance and insight into your life but is not to take away from your own common sense. If your unsure of a meaning of a card please contact someone for help. A tarot reading is meant to be positive. Your guides will always operate in a positive light and not provide you negative insight. Any negative interpretation is likely a miss-interpretation.


Your guides and how they communicate

What is a guide? A guide is someone who you have trusted with your soul for this life. Someone who is on the other side, and will ensure that you follow your life plan. We choose certain “themes” or “life lessons”. What we would like to learn this time and take back to the other side.

They will support you, love you unconditionally and do what they can to help you in this life to be successful. They can NOT interfere, but they can leave signs, they can help connections happen in your life that help propel those lessons and experiences further.

The easiest way for them to communicate is through dreams. You may not always remember your dreams but you could ask that they let you. Before going to bed, make sure that you tell your guides what insight your looking for, and that you would like to remember when you wake up. The dream might not even make sense, but write down the elements of it. There are many dream dictionaries online.

Signs: this can happen with things that you see visually. Perhaps a poster on the wall draws your attention and there is a specific word/meaning/cue on there that you might not have noticed otherwise. Your guides have drawn your attention to it. A quick nudge in the hopes of getting you back on track and helping you find the answers you seek. Perhaps you were looking for insight on starting a new job or changing career paths, and then an ad on the radio comes on talking about this new position. These are not coincidences!

Some people are clairaudient and able to hear their guides. Some people do not even realize that they are conversing with their guides and just rule it off as their own inner thoughts. How many times though, have you received information that you had no idea how you could possibly know? Or known where an item is and yet you should have no knowledge of it being there? If you listen closely, your thoughts are different than that of your guides, or loved ones who have crossed over. The tone or the words used would be different than how your own inner thoughts sound.

Has anyone connected with their guides in one of these ways?