Are they dead? Or have they just “moved on”?

I want to tell you about a dream I had. I wonder if others here have had the same, and this would lead to a fun event to try and connect with the other side. (it’s a long post, but I think worth the read!)

My mom passed away March 8, 2010. I was 33 years old, and as I am 43 years old now, I realize how thankful I am that I got to spend 33 years with her. Her husband passed away June 17th, 2017. The day I turned 40.

I have been thinking of them both a lot lately. Often asking them for guidance as I know our loved ones can leave messages for us especially through dreams or in signs. (Since asking, there have been dimes everywhere, which to me is an indication they are listening!).

My dream on the other hand was hard for me. Here is what happened.

DREAM: I received a phone call. It was from my mom. In my dream, I thought she was dead. I knew it. But the dream me was so thankful to hear from her, all reason seemed to go out of the window. How could this be? How could I be talking to her on the phone. She told me that her and Gord (Her husband) didn’t actually die, they just went somewhere else (moved in the dream) and didn’t want people to know they were alive anymore. That they were together. Of course dream me is hurt, like how could they lead us to believe this entire time that they were dead and have just been here all along.

She then tells me that she has to have surgery and for me to call her the next day at 6:45. I agree and say goodbye, and then wonder if I should be telling my sister, and Gord’s family that he isn’t dead, and that they just moved away.

It’s then that I woke up. It’s hard. Hearing her voice again was so nice, but these visits are hard because you are so thankful that they aren’t dead, only to wake up again realizing that they are not actually physically here.

What is the message from the dream? A reminder that our loved ones are not “dead” but just “moved on”. Their body may no longer be here, but their soul lives on and that’s the message they continue to hammer home.

I have had a few of these dreams now, where my mom has told me if I just waited a few more days to cremate her, she was coming back.. (She had already had “moved on” now for almost a week, so obviously that wouldn’t have happened) To another dream that I had run into my mom at a restaurant with her new family…

As I sit here and type this out, and obviously feeling emotional (and yes crying haha) I thought, what if the number 645 had further meaning.. and decided to google “angel number 645”.

Heavenly presence is manifested by number meaning 645. This represents the angels, fairies, guardian angels and heavenly beings. The occurrence of 645 is a sign that they are watching you. They want you to take the right direction in life.

What are your thoughts? Have you had any dreams of your loved ones who have “moved on”?

I am going to be doing a have event with the people in my facebook group. Working on connecting to our loved ones. Learning how to open up your own gifts for this area. If your interested in opening your own psychic abilities, join our private group on facebook

What happens when we cross over?

I have a lot of clients ask me what happens when we cross over, and if their loved ones know they have died. I hope I can put your mind at ease with what I have been shown. Providing more peace with your loved one’s passing and letting you know that they are safe on the other side.

When someone passes away, regardless of what has caused their passing, whether they were aware of it to happen or not, the first few moments is a bit disorienting. Realizing the people who stand before you are not in a dream because you clue in they had already crossed over. It’s usually your guide who is the first one you see, followed by the people who you cared about in this life time who have gone before you. There is a moment of feeling disappointed, regret of what you didn’t accomplish and the sadness of the people you have left behind. This usually lasts a few minutes, until the realization of why you choose that life to begin with, the life lessons you had chosen and succeed at, and the exit points you had chosen for yourself. Then settles in acceptance and happiness. Your home.

Our loved ones are not sad that they have gone. They worry about us, the ones who are living and struggling with their absence. The ones who are having difficulty with their passing and prevented from being our happier selves. They do not want to be thought of as “dead”. This is a term we use, they prefer “crossed over” or “home”. Dead means gone forever, and that is not the case after you cross over.

I have talked with many other psychics who also do readings on loved ones who have crossed over, and they too say they have difficulty with connecting with someone after they have been gone for 2 weeks. It’s from 2 weeks to the 6 month mark that seems to be more difficult and a bit more cloudy on the information that comes through.

The first two weeks, your loved one is able to “hang around” to ensure that you are coping. To say their goodbyes and do what they can to try and comfort you. Signs and dreams will be strongest during this time. They want you to know they have made it! A song might play on the radio you connect to them, perhaps finding something on the ground you know they had something to do with! After this time frame, they head to the “review” room with their Guide. The image is like a booth that they sit in, it has curtains that close you in and you sit and watch your life here on earth. The moments that really mattered, including the moments you had wished to forget, and understand more fully the impact you had on this life. Did you accomplish your lessons? Was there something more you could have learned. This process is done with only yourself and your main guide. No one else. Your allowed to cry, to ask questions. Formulate whether you would like to return in a new life for any life lessons you might have missed or even to take a break. This review provides you a bit of time to “detox”. Being more connected with your spiritual side and the person you are when you are “home”.

Do you have questions? Comment below

What if a Tarot Card Reading was easier than you thought?

Reading Tarot cards are something that can be easy or difficult. It really depends on the cards and your confidence in yourself. Although the tarot cards do come with instructions, did you know that there is another way to read them?

As I have mentioned in the past, your Spirit Guides will utilize experiences in your life to help you interpret the message. The same goes if you were to use Tarot cards!

Take your favorite deck and shuffle them. Start going through the pile and take the one that feels like it’s calling to you (there will be that little voice in your head that says “stop” or a slight “nudge” to a card in your hand. For me, It feels like a “lucky” card and I want to pick it!)

Without looking at this card, place it against your chest, and your hand covering it. Feel the card. What emotions are you getting? What visuals are you getting? Any images? People, thoughts, feelings, places, symbols, items..etc.. Write it down!

Take a look at your card. Does it have similar imagery to what you were shown? Similar colors to what you saw or felt? Take a look at your writing. Does what you have written down reflect the images on the card? Interpret it further. What do some of the feelings, colors, images that you were shown mean for you? (you can use a dream dictionary too as a way to further interpret these signs!)

A lot of times, your interpretation and what the meaning of the card (according to the instructions) will be fairly close! After you have interpreted your card, go ahead and check the meaning behind it. See how close things were. The more you practice this, the more confident you will when it comes to reading tarot for yourself or friends.

Let me know if you tried this 🙂

How my Spirit Guide kept me on track…

I love providing readings to my clients. Giving them insight into their life and how they can not only make things better but to also better understand what is happening and why. Let me tell you what happened, and how I met my second Spirit Guide.

I had been providing readings for FREE. Yes.. FREE. Completely full indepth – the whole shebang! I wanted to help as many people as I could possibly help. I never anticipated the amount of emails that would come in every day. Clients looking for that little glimmer of home. I knew I could provide that. I took pride in being able to do that and put so much time and effort into it. Add in that I had a full time job and a young child when I got started. It got to the point where I couldn’t keep up. I was falling behind and feeling miserable about it. I do not like to disappoint anyone. I started receiving emails from people, MAD that I hadn’t sent their free reading. These emails were not kind.

I took the night off from replying to emails and I remember clear as day sitting on the corner of my near, near tears. Thinking that I needed to stop doing readings. That I couldn’t keep everyone happy and perhaps this was not for me. It was then, for the very first time I met my secondary Guide Serlina. Her hair black and curly, just past her shoulders, slender build and wearing a black lace dress. She reminded me of a gypsy but was so kind. She said “You can’t give up. Your needed”. These words although not spoken out loud have stuck with me over the years. I was given this gift to share with others. To help in whatever way I can. Although I have started to charge for my readings I still do provide free reading contests frequently on my page where you can enter to win.

Although Serlina is my Spirit Guide for only matters relating to my Spiritual Side and the journey that I am taking with it, she came at the right moment to help me when I needed it. Your guides will be there for you too.

I’d love to hear your thoughts/comments below.

Signs from your guides and loved ones!

I am sure that you have all heard of psychics talking about “signs”. Things that we “see” or have felt and then provide you what we know about that sign.

You might have been told to look for signs yourself from loved ones who have crossed over, or from your guides in regards to an answer you have been searching for.

But what if your unsure which sign to look for? Confused about if your doing it right? etc…

I thought I would explain this a bit better, so that everyone could be a bit more aware of their own gifts, and realize that the signs they have been seeing, are tailored specifically to you!

No psychic is the same. Everyone one of us has had our own life lessons to get through so our experiences are different including how we would approach a reading or how we would interpret a sign. Our guides would utilize our experience, our knowledge as a way to pass on a message to our clients.

Let’s say you seen a penny on the ground… what do you instantly think it means? Penny for your thoughts? Maybe it ‘s “penny saved penny earned” etc. Depending on YOUR thoughts when you see this penny would determine how you would interpret it. Your life experience and knowledge would dictate how you interpret that sign. Your guides would rely on your knowledge and life lessons to use the appropriate sign to provide you answer and direction 🙂

Does this make sense? Let’s chat about this. Ask your questions about this topic below. Maybe it’s a sign you see and need further interpretation… etc

Positive thinking – Visual techniques for trying to conceive

I will probably mention this till I am blue in the face, its always important to remain positive. Even when things seem at their worst, a positive attitude will see you through.

I have mentioned to countless woman who were seeking my predictions to also incorporate these positive thinking exercises while trying to conceive. I know I have sent numerous people to my blog in search of this for what I talk about. To make it easier, I have added the label “positive thinking exercises” so that anyone can find it at any time.

I have mentioned this before, the first time I started trying to conceive our first daughter, I had tried for months, and like everyone else trying to conceive, would be distraught over my period showing up! The month I decided to use my positive thinking exercises, is the same month I got pregnant with my daughter!

So, when trying to conceive baby number 2, I started right away with these exercises and got pregnant the first cycle!

here are the “instructions”. if anyone has any questions about it please reply in the comments section and I will answer your questions:)

POSITIVE THINKING – TIP/TRICKS

After having intercourse (or insemination for some) stay in bed with your hips elevated for 20 minutes. Do not get out of bed until this time. With your eyes closed, I want you to envision the sperm going up and into your uterus, and envision the sperm meeting up with your egg, and getting inside. After you have pictured this, say in your mind “this is my month to conceive. I feel relaxed and at peace. I am ready for this baby”.. etc. I want you to do this at least three times…

You can do this every time you have sex if you like, but its most important at your approx time for ovulation.your mind is a powerful thing.. you will be amazed at what you will accomplish.

I think that you need to also cut out pictures of babies, and put on your fridge. these are positive goals, ways to set your mind forward.. positive thinking….I know a few other women who have tried this, and had much success as well.

Crossing over – what happens first

When someone passes away it’s always devastating to us who are left behind. Did you know what happens to our loved ones when they make the journey home?

There have been many times when a loved one will try and communicate with you before you go. Gord, my step dad came to me in a dream the night before he passed. In this “dream” he was stuck inside a closet that had no door. He was walking around inside, bumping into the walls and he said to me ” I don’t know which way to go?”. He was clearly lost, frustrated and not sure what he was doing. Now I have to admit that my dream self didn’t realize this was a visit and not a dream, and of course with watching “The Walking Dead” tv show, my dream self said “Don’t eat the people!!”. I guess in the dream, this apparently made perfect sense. After walking up, I realized it for what it was and had a sense of foreboding the entire day. I drove to the hospital that day and visited with him. (He had been sedated for almost 2 weeks prior because the cancer had caused him to be lucid and anytime he was “awake” he would try and pull out his ports). I talked with him, told him about the dream I had of him and imparted better advice. Telling him we would miss him, and that when he crossed over, he would see my mom and for him to tell her that we miss her too. Gord passed away around 1pm that day. Not even 2 hours after I had left.

So what happens when they have given their last breath? Well, our loved ones do not need to leave right away. Despite no longer having a physical body, they prefer to stay here for 10-14 days. Wanting to ensure that we are the ones okay. They know where they are and happy to go home, but see us being sad for the next part of their journey. They want to ensure that we are processing their passing and accepting of it. That we are accepting of their passing and able to grieve properly. They are also able to say their goodbyes. To leave signs that they are okay.

Most psychics will find it difficult to connect to someone who has crossed over after the 14 day mark. Once they have been gone for longer than 6 months, it feels like you can connect to them again. Why is this? Although there is no time on the other side, there is a process that they go through once they cross over.

After they have said their goodbyes, they go into a holding room on the other side. Think of it as a theatre room. It seats the individual and their Spirit Guide will remain behind them. Providing them love and support as they go through their life review. Sometimes our hard/difficult lessons take a toll on our soul after we cross. Being hard on ourselves on the things we did to ourselves and the people we cared about. This review allows us the bigger picture. The pieces of the puzzle that we were not privileged too on earth. The why’s of what happened to us and why we needed to go through that. This often allows us to not only forgive ourselves, but others as well.

After this life review, our lessons retained we are able to continue with reconnecting to others who have passed before us. Like a little reunion and reconnection!

Interested in Tarot Cards?

If you have an interest in developing your own Psychic gifts, learning the Tarot cards is the easiest way to get started. I have many tarot decks and use them as an add on for readings. My two favorite decks are as follows!

John Holland – The Psychic Tarot Oracle Deck

This tarot deck is one I purchased while at a lecture from John Holland. If you ever get a chance to see a lecture in person by him, he is one that you will enjoy and be impressed!

This tarot deck is perfect for what will be coming next, or even using in a past/present/future life spread. Allowing you guidance into what might be holding you back, what could be happening right now that you need more focus on, so that what is to happen in the future will allow you to move forward. These cards are easy to follow and they do have a guidebook that you can read to follow up for the meaning of the cards.

My second favorite Tarot deck is Denise Linn – Soul Coaching Oracle Cards

This deck is a very empowering deck that provides you insight into what is happening right now and into the close future. Providing you a glimpse and insight into what you need to know. They are very uplifting and a positive message that many people can resonate too. This deck has a positive influence and a good energy about them.

They offer the card meaning, what your soul wants you to know by having this card, and the positive affirmation that goes with it to “activate” this into your life.

Another way to read a tarot card that you might find to be fun. Take a card without looking at the picture and hold it against your heart. Feel the card’s energy and allow whatever visuals to come into your mind. Pictures, colors, feelings. Write it down. When you feel you have everything, look at the card. Does it have similar characteristics to what you had seen/felt? Not only then should you look up the interpretation of the card, but also what you had written down. These will also play a factor in the message you have received.

I usually purchase my tarot cards from Hay House – https://www.hayhouse.com/

Which Tarot Decks do you own?

Remember, a tarot deck is meant to offer you guidance and insight into your life but is not to take away from your own common sense. If your unsure of a meaning of a card please contact someone for help. A tarot reading is meant to be positive. Your guides will always operate in a positive light and not provide you negative insight. Any negative interpretation is likely a miss-interpretation.

Your guides and how they communicate

What is a guide? A guide is someone who you have trusted with your soul for this life. Someone who is on the other side, and will ensure that you follow your life plan. We choose certain “themes” or “life lessons”. What we would like to learn this time and take back to the other side.

They will support you, love you unconditionally and do what they can to help you in this life to be successful. They can NOT interfere, but they can leave signs, they can help connections happen in your life that help propel those lessons and experiences further.

The easiest way for them to communicate is through dreams. You may not always remember your dreams but you could ask that they let you. Before going to bed, make sure that you tell your guides what insight your looking for, and that you would like to remember when you wake up. The dream might not even make sense, but write down the elements of it. There are many dream dictionaries online.

Signs: this can happen with things that you see visually. Perhaps a poster on the wall draws your attention and there is a specific word/meaning/cue on there that you might not have noticed otherwise. Your guides have drawn your attention to it. A quick nudge in the hopes of getting you back on track and helping you find the answers you seek. Perhaps you were looking for insight on starting a new job or changing career paths, and then an ad on the radio comes on talking about this new position. These are not coincidences!

Some people are clairaudient and able to hear their guides. Some people do not even realize that they are conversing with their guides and just rule it off as their own inner thoughts. How many times though, have you received information that you had no idea how you could possibly know? Or known where an item is and yet you should have no knowledge of it being there? If you listen closely, your thoughts are different than that of your guides, or loved ones who have crossed over. The tone or the words used would be different than how your own inner thoughts sound.

Has anyone connected with their guides in one of these ways?

Loosing a loved one…

This is never an easy time in life. I know that we all look for proof that our loved ones have made it to the other side. Some sort of sign that will bring us comfort that they are okay. I wanted to share 2 of my own experiences that might help you with your own loss and perhaps validate for you that your own experience was real, not a coincidence.

My mom passed away March 8, 2010. I received a call around 10:30pm from her husband Gord. He told me she was having a heart attack and things didn’t look good and that the paramedics were already with them for the last 30 minutes and they would be taking her to the hospital. I am just under an hour away. I get dressed, call my sister and have her head over (she was 10 minutes away) and “flew” down the highway. I don’t know what I was thinking. I just wanted to get there. I wanted to encourage her to fight. I was literally 5 minutes away from her house and as if she was sitting beside me, I heard the words clear as day “Rally racer rally racer”. Her voice as well. It was then that I knew she had crossed over. That racing there was no longer something I needed to do. She was gone.

I arrived at the hospital and they confirmed, they had tried everything, but nothing could be done.

The second time:
My step Dad Gord, had been fighting cancer since November. It was in May that the tumor had grown so large, that it was blocking his airway in his neck and restricting blood flow to his brain. They had no choice but to sedate him, as when alert he would try and pull out all of his ports, any tubes that were helping him to receive oxygen.. anything that would help keep him alive. As a family we had been told by the Dr’s there was nothing further they could do for him, and would have to keep him sedated until he passed away. Through conversations with Gord, he drew the line at being a “vegetable” and had told us he would rather they stopped all life support if that were to happen.
The longest 2 weeks of my life occurred during this time and it was hard to watch. I spent every day at the hospital, talking to him, letting him know I was there. Arranging for other people to visit with him as well. Say their goodbyes. It was June 16th, 2016 that I had a dream of Gord. I realized the next day that this was no ordinary dream. He came to me in a dream, he was “stuck” in this dark closet and was bumping into the walls, going back and forth like a blind person not being able to find their way out. He said “I don’t know where I am supposed to go”. Like all dreams, our imagination goes wild and apparently my dreaming self thought this response was appropriate “Don’t eat the people!” (I watch too much walking dead and obviously thought he was a zombie?!) The next day, I drove to the hospital. It was my 40th birthday. I told Gord about my dream, about what I had said to him and then let him know that my mom was waiting for him. That I loved him, that we would all miss him and to tell my mom I miss her too. I headed home to pick up my kids from school, to get a call from Gord’s daughter in law that she was told that there was signs it could happen any minute. I raced back, and missed him by 10 minutes.

Your loved ones will do their best to show you signs that they are okay. That they made it. Whether it’s manifesting through voice near you, out loud or in your head. Perhaps it’s through a “dream”. Your loved ones will utilize your strengths to connect with you. Too often we think it’s a coincidence. We assume it was wishful thinking. There are a lot of signs that will show you that they are thinking of you and not too far.

I’d love to hear your storey – comment below and someone randomly will win a connection with a loved one from me 🙂 (If it won’t let you comment below, please comment on the post on facebook and you will still be entered to win)

Cheri22

Psychic – Medium

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